I was feeling pretty good one night a week ago, and decided this blog should focus on helpful strategies for preserving mental health in the time of Trump. It’s not my intention to exclude other topics; I still need to vent. But we all need to resist the impulse to wallow in despair. I continually find myself thinking back to past generations and the resolute courage they had to have to live through the Depression and WWII. OK, maybe my grandfather locked himself in the bathroom and bawled his head off twice a day, but he made it through and so can we.
Friday night I went to a rather intimate protest/rally downtown. We were lucky to get to sit under an awning to keep out of rain. The wet sidewalks reflected the colorful lights around us as one by one, colorful people stood in front of a microphone and spoke from their hearts. The first guy was a homeless man who talked about how humans have drifted so far away from their true nature. A software programmer from Iran. A middle-aged guy originally from India who talked about Gandhi. A young man dressed in a flamboyant red, white, and blue ensemble who relates very strongly to a fictional superhero. I was a little afraid he was a neo-Nazi by his boots, but he gave a very passionate speech using the words of Captain America and it was beautiful. A German woman rushed up and said, “I grew up in Germany and what happened there will never happen here because of YOU!” Tiny high-schoolers with colorful hair talked about LGBT rights. Towards the end, the Indian guy returned to tell a dirty joke, which nobody got. It was awesome. I loved those people so much. I wanted to give each one of them a hug. I clapped and hooted for every single one, even the ones I didn’t agree with.
I am so proud that it was my state that stood up to this reckless, arbitrary, cruel and bigoted order within a matter of days. For me this was another turning point. It has taken us some time, but the rational people in America are pulling themselves together and getting the resistance moving forward. I think most people were not prepared for such an immediate assault from Trump. It has taken us a few weeks to see that our worst fears are indeed coming true: He is a loose cannon, he is doing everything possible to undermine our system of government, merely to help the ultra-rich get richer. Anybody still defending Trump at this point is morally corrupt, stupid, or willfully blind. I feel strongly that we should ignore those people. Arguing with them is a waste of time. They are not rational. Like other extremist groups in the US, we have to put up with them, but we certainly don’t have to pay attention to them either.
For the last week, I have been sifting through information available online trying to devise a strategy for engagement for the next four years. I think most Americans are like me in this: “What can I do??” I’ve tried to narrow it down to a handful of groups that look rational and action-oriented (rather than just complaining). I did actually call my Senators last week to urge them to do anything in their power about the immigration ban.
The two sides are taking shape: on our side are the governors and mayors, a few Democract members of Congress, the responsible press, many federal employees, and at least some of the judiciary. Given enough time, Trump and his cronies will have time to replace many of those people, so we have to move fast. It is an epic battle. As with so many things these days, if there wasn’t so much at stake, it would be entertaining. Unfortunately, it’s all a matter (literally) of life and death.